Here is an article about Ross Perot. He told a person with a wounded soldier son coming back from Afghanistan and Iraq this.
Later when they spoke, Ross told Rosie two things: “One phone call is all you ever need to make if you need anything. Now, I want you to focus on Alan.” And that is exactly what happened.
It is really too bad that this story will be ignored by the news media. Perot wanted it that way while he was living but now that he has passed on it doesn’t hurt to share the kindness of the man.